*ponders* Of course, given the bit about how "the scales recently tipped in your favour", what they are also saying is that you are just a hair's breadth away from falling back into the unattractive side of their world. They dare not spin it thus, but it's the same thing -- the nicest of the damned were just a sliver worse than the the nastiest lot in heaven!

Glad I left OK Cupid behind long ago...