Personally, I think being someone who prefers and seeks out multiple relationships is as much a choice as liking men, women or both. My desire to have multiple relationships is as old as me wanting relationships in the first place. I never chose Poly and I reject the notion that I choose to be in a relationship that's polyamorous as much as a gay man would reject the notion that he chooses to like men.
I'm happy to debate this on here, but I appreciate how hard it is to discuss opposing points of view online so please, if you're going, find me at BiCon and we can chat about it there instead :)
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Personally, I think being someone who prefers and seeks out multiple relationships is as much a choice as liking men, women or both. My desire to have multiple relationships is as old as me wanting relationships in the first place. I never chose Poly and I reject the notion that I choose to be in a relationship that's polyamorous as much as a gay man would reject the notion that he chooses to like men.
I'm happy to debate this on here, but I appreciate how hard it is to discuss opposing points of view online so please, if you're going, find me at BiCon and we can chat about it there instead :)