I'm reminded of a joke. A masochist says to a sadist "Hurt me" and the sadist says "no".
I've fortunately never encountered or before heard of that sort of misbehaving or brattery. I've only ever heard of one instance of actual disrespectful actions towards a sub, but I get the impression there were other problems in that relationship.
I did speak with a domme about her and her husband's subs, and she didn't consider what they, meaning her and her husband, did to them, meaning the subs, to be punishment. It was reward, and I think punishment was something like making them sit in a corner.
I'm also not as active in my community as you are in yours, so there is a difference in the groups sampled and number of samples.
I guess it's a good thing that I enjoyed the essay, as I'm not in range to spank you anyway.
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Date: 2012-02-03 11:47 pm (UTC)I've fortunately never encountered or before heard of that sort of misbehaving or brattery. I've only ever heard of one instance of actual disrespectful actions towards a sub, but I get the impression there were other problems in that relationship.
I did speak with a domme about her and her husband's subs, and she didn't consider what they, meaning her and her husband, did to them, meaning the subs, to be punishment. It was reward, and I think punishment was something like making them sit in a corner.
I'm also not as active in my community as you are in yours, so there is a difference in the groups sampled and number of samples.
I guess it's a good thing that I enjoyed the essay, as I'm not in range to spank you anyway.