I really don't get on well with "you have been bad and I will punish you" as a top or as a bottom. I like "we're going to do this thing together, and it might be really difficult for you to take, but I'm here to help".
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Very well said. Much better than I've ever been able to say it. My best effort has been, 'I'm not looking for a master and I'm not looking for a slave. I'm looking for a partner in crime.'
Your way is much nicer, I think. Much more direct and clear.
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Date: 2012-02-21 04:08 am (UTC)::applauds::
Very well said. Much better than I've ever been able to say it. My best effort has been, 'I'm not looking for a master and I'm not looking for a slave. I'm looking for a partner in crime.'
Your way is much nicer, I think. Much more direct and clear.