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emanix ([personal profile] emanix) wrote2009-07-23 12:26 pm

Hypocrisy a Trois?

I really have no idea where to start with commenting on this article on triad relationships versus sensible poly- anyone care to start? 

(23/7/9 13:21 - edited title)

[identity profile] misterfallen.livejournal.com 2009-07-23 11:50 am (UTC)(link)
And here I was thinking you were having a last minute wobble about the three of us living together... :) Nice to see you're just annoyed at stupid people.

[identity profile] misterfallen.livejournal.com 2009-07-23 12:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm...just finished reading the article now. Looks like the guy is glamorizing things more than a little. 'oh look, all these famous people have experimented with troilism. Surely it is good, and surely engaging in it will make me great and famous too!'

LOL

[identity profile] mriq.livejournal.com 2009-07-23 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Coincidentally I saw and read that article earlier today, and the plan was to show it to you and ask for your opinion, but I guess there's no need for that anymore...

[identity profile] hollykitten.livejournal.com 2009-07-23 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe I've just been in too many 'hot topic' communities all through my life, but this is about what I'd expect from any mainstream media on any topic - namely deliberately aiming an impression at the uninformed reader that everything to do with the subject is just as they describe ...

[identity profile] misterfallen.livejournal.com 2009-07-23 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually, I've just noticed something. This was in the "Women" section, but was written by a man. I guess the piece was written with a view to getting a few married women to decide that the answer to their marital stagnation is to take on a younger lover.

Personally, I think you should write a long and well-informed letter, citing more than a single anecdote and a few famous names as backup, explaining why poly is better. Oh, and name-checking Tilda Swinton, since the lovely author failed to mention her happily open method of troilism. Prefereably using the phrase "pretentious, self-adoring, media-grad arse" at some point. :)